10 guys + 1 girl

Hello readers!!

As you might now, i´m in Valencia, Spain... I don´t have many girl friends now, so i´m hanging out with a friend called Charley (Carlos), that´s living here!..

So I realized that for the last 2 weeks I´ve been just with guys, his friends all the time... It´s nice, actually it´s nicer that I expect! Playing poker, going to night clubs! I´m glad to have him here! I´m happy with his friends but, I keep thinking... Maybe it will be nice to have girl frinds.. But at the same time, I still have a really hard feeling for my venezuelan friends, so maybe, and just maybe, that´s why I prefered to be with guys!..

Todays song --- I don´t have one cause this isn´t my computer

C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

When you know the answer!..

Hello readers!

I have a qst for you... Have this ever happened to you?: You suddenly get mad at someone, but you don't tell them anything, cause you know what their answer will be? Well it happens to me a lot!..

Sometimes, when I mad at something, for the same reason that the last time, I just get tired and I don't say anything, because their answer will be the same. For example, if I get mad with a friend because she didn't invite me somewhere... The first time it happens, I tell her "Oh girl, why didn't you invite me" so what ever the answer is, it'll be ok... But then, if she do it again, I hate to tell her anything, 'cause I know how's gonna be her reaction.

This is what happens in life, I think that's the reason we simply stop talking to someone, and after some time you don't know what happened, cause you never had and argue or anything!.. I have not advice for you this time... It's just how I think it is, that's why we shouldn't be too predictable...

Today's song --> Baby please don't go - Mike Posner

So this is it.. Just an small reflexion to explain the "why" of some things... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

The secret of your eyes!

Hello readers!

Today's post will be about love... Or at least how to flirt!..
Yesterday was my sister's birthday... 18 finally! So now she can go out, drink, party and everything will be legal!
Well, there in the place we went (Le Club) I started looking at people, and I realized, that all the people that seems good looking to me (boys and girls) were not that pretty, they just had nice eyes! Is like a way to see, something that is sweet in girls, and intense in guys...

And yeah, I think the secret of beauty is in the eyes. But it doesn't mean you must have blue eyes, or a lot of eyelashes, no... it's more about the way you look at things, like if your eyes were hiding something!..

So the next time you wanna feel prettier, go on and try to wear something that make your eyes look bigger, or try a new way to "see" things!..

Today's song --> Ojos así - Shakira

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

You can't make them like you!

Hello readers!

Today's post is about that you can't force people to like you... It doesn't matter how nice you are, you're always gonna have some hatters!

The first time, I learn that in life, was on a cartoon... Recess (A disney production) in that episode, the main character, a supper nice guy, met this boy who didn't like him, and at the end, the boy still didn't like him!
So life's like that, sometimes, we make a huge effort to be "likable" to people, we don't want people to hate us, but it doesn't matter how hard you try, there's always gonna be a few.
The important part of this, is to make them, who like you, more important in your life, that the ones who dislike you!..

There's a very famous quote that reads: "If you have enemies, it's because you had defended something in your life"

Today's song --> Hate on me - Jill Scot

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!! (I had being having troubles with bloggers, so maybe I'll be delated with my posts)

The greatest weakness of all is the great fear of appearing weak

Do you think you’re strong enough to say to the world what’s your weakness? 

I’m not! Many times I had think about this… Maybe all my problems are there, just because I’m not strong enough to say, accepted and overcome my persona issue.

Yesterday I was watching The Glee Project on Fox… And they where singing this song “Mad World”. That for some reason, every time I hear it I can’t avoid crying. In the show, the guys were wearing big signs with their weakness written. And I though, if I were on the show, I’d had to lie about it.

Being insecure is not good for anyone, it makes you do stupid things sometimes, make the wrong decisions, or even do things you don’t wanna do, just because you’re afraid.

For my own happiness I can say that, I’m not alone, I know that! Everybody has something to hide. And I’m not talking about something material, I’m talking about feelings, emotions, way to see the world, perspective, their past or their future.

If all of us were a little bit more tolerant, maybe this could be a happier world, but that’s just how I see it…

Today’s song is: Mad World --> Gary Jules

So this is it… C ya tomorrow with a new post!

The morning quotes!

Hello readers... I didn't post this weekend because I was at the beach with my friends... I had a great time there... How was your weekend??

Since last week I have been texting quotes (the famous ones) every morning, to all my friends as a "purple" blackberry message...
I decided to make this, 'cause I though... "What can be a nicer way to wake up that with a new inspirational quote on your phone, and a wish of a happy day" So, for now, people seem to be happy with it, they always comment me back... So I recommend you to do those kind of small things to make a happier and better world, or at least to make someone happy in a gray day...

Today's song: All my loving - The Beatles.

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new more reflexive post!!!

Decisions

Every time you choose something over another thing, you're making a decision, those decisions affect a lot of people, we usually think, that a decision is something we take for ourselves that's only gonna change things for us... But is not like that... I'm  gonna show you an example...

This weekend is a long weekend, we didn't have work or classes today, so everybody is going out of the city, to the beach, to the feels and other places. My family choose to go to the farm, I was happy about it, I always have a nice time when I go there, but then my best friend told me to go to the beach, he told me many people was going, so he convinced me to go with them, that's why yesterday I told my family I wasn't going to the farm, I was going to the beach. They weren't happy about it, actually they were mad, because I told them in the last minute, and now I'm going to the beach with a kind of bad feeling inside :s

So, now I'm wondering, if I resolved to go to the beach that late, maybe I should go to the farm and forget about the beach? 'Cause now all my family is like mad at me, and of course, i'm not happy ether. I think that for the next time I'll think a little bit more how my chooses afec others, not because I'm a selfish person, but decisions are not a personal issue anymore.

Today's song: Give me everything - Pitbul

So this is it, C ya on monday (I'm gonna be out of town) with a new post...!