The perfect... Match?

Hello readers!!

I haven't post in a while, but as you might now I'd been struggling with some problems at bloggers... Pretty frustrating!! I hope I can post this :'( 

Today's post is about the perfect guy. I recently was talking with my self thinking, that I usually pick the wrong boy... And I end crying and feeling bad. So I decide to make a list, a list of things that my "perfect one" should have, or shouldn't have at all... So I invite you boys and girls, if you feel you're failing every time you pick someone to be with, make a list... Then, you should see the list and check if the guy you want know, has any of this things... 'Cause remember that when the first sparkle is gone, all the rest is really gonna matter.

I have a list myself... I'm not gonna post it 'cause it's in spanish and I don't know how to translated... I'm just gonna type my top 5 of "totally yes" and "totally not".

Totally yes:

We must talk every day

Knows how to cook

Pretty hands and pretty feet

Like to dance

Like to go out

Totally not:

Bad modals in the table 

Unpunctual 

Never say "Sorry"

Don't standup for me

Don't respect my job

Today's song --> New age - Marlon Roudette

So this is it... Hope I can post tomorrow again :( So (yn) C ya tomorrow with a new post?

Brothers and Sisters

Hello readers.

Today's post is about brothers and sisters!.. I’m talking about those persons that make you wanna kill them sometimes, and love them some others!..

I have a sister, Ale! She’s really different from me, not just on the way she looks, also her personality is way different from mine, but it doesn’t matter, ‘cause we love each other any way! I know that no matter what, she’ll always stand by me, and me for her!..

Having a sister or brother is like having a friend living in your own house. Of course we fight sometimes, it’s hard to live with someone every day, but after all, she’s like a best friend for me!.. It has been like that since always, since we were little girls, we had always been friends and I’m glad I have her!..

I think a single son/daughter, can not imagine how’s living with another like you!.. A friend/enemy at home, someone to talk to when you need it, an advice giver!..

So my advice to you, is that if you have a sister/brother at home, love him/her with all your heart! And make them your best friend!!

Today’s song --> Hey soul sister – Train

So this is it… C ya tomorrow with a new post!

Rest in peace

My uncle and I 2009

Hello readers.

Today's not a happy day... My uncle Enzo Alibrandi, just passed away. He was my father's nearest brother, something like his best friend!.. It's sad to lose a best friend, and even more sad if he's also your brother... 

My uncle Enzo, Toño (My best friend's dad) and my dad! 70's

So that's why my dad went to the Florida yesterday, 'cause we live in Venezuela, but my uncle used to live in the States. 

Now, I'm thinking about the eternal question: "What happens when we dye?" 

I'm not a very spiritual person, actually, i'm almost an atheist, don't know why, 'cause I was raise in a Catholic family, and I went to a Christian school... But, no matter how hard I try, I don't believe... So, if I don't buy the idea of heaven... What's left, is there life after death? 

If we disappear when we dye, I can officially say that THIS LIFE IS A WASTE OF TIME!! I mean... This whole planet, universe, galaxy... Just to live 80, 90 or in my uncle's case 58 years? No thanks!.. I don't think it works like that!.. 

I just wish that when we dye, we can meet with our love ones again... But I know nothing, I just can hope my uncle is better now, than he was yesterday, struggling with a cancer!..

Today's song --> Fantasma - Arbol (is in spanish)

So this is it... Not a happy day, not a happy moment!.. C ya tomorrow with a new post

Painting your life

I just hope my painting looks like that!!

Hello Readers!! 

Tonight, a friend of my wrote to me about this theory… “Our life is a work of art that we paint, with every experience we live”

Since we’re born, life gives us this canvas, and all the paints in the world. Every thing we do, or live, will be like a paint stroke in our canvas. The more remarkable and hard to erase will be the darkest ones. So it is our job to convert these strokes, into a beautiful paint.

Your paint as your life will always be unique!  You can make it a memorable peace of work if you do something transcendent in life, reflected in your paint.

When you feel lost, like you don’t know what to do… How to keep painting? It’s because you’re looking at your work to closely. Those, who know exactly what to do with their life. Are the ones watching their paints from a long distance.

The things you’ve done are hard to erase. But you can convert them in something beautiful, if you know how to take advantage of the situation. It means that you shouldn’t regret about your past, and try to amend it in your present, to have a better work of art in your future.

And remember, you’ll paint till the day you dye. It means that it’s never too late, but never late is better.

Today’s song à Life in Technicolor – Coldplay

So this is it… Hope you understand the point of this post… C ya tomorrow with a new post!! 

When you know the answer!..

Hello readers!

I have a qst for you... Have this ever happened to you?: You suddenly get mad at someone, but you don't tell them anything, cause you know what their answer will be? Well it happens to me a lot!..

Sometimes, when I mad at something, for the same reason that the last time, I just get tired and I don't say anything, because their answer will be the same. For example, if I get mad with a friend because she didn't invite me somewhere... The first time it happens, I tell her "Oh girl, why didn't you invite me" so what ever the answer is, it'll be ok... But then, if she do it again, I hate to tell her anything, 'cause I know how's gonna be her reaction.

This is what happens in life, I think that's the reason we simply stop talking to someone, and after some time you don't know what happened, cause you never had and argue or anything!.. I have not advice for you this time... It's just how I think it is, that's why we shouldn't be too predictable...

Today's song --> Baby please don't go - Mike Posner

So this is it.. Just an small reflexion to explain the "why" of some things... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

The secret of your eyes!

Hello readers!

Today's post will be about love... Or at least how to flirt!..
Yesterday was my sister's birthday... 18 finally! So now she can go out, drink, party and everything will be legal!
Well, there in the place we went (Le Club) I started looking at people, and I realized, that all the people that seems good looking to me (boys and girls) were not that pretty, they just had nice eyes! Is like a way to see, something that is sweet in girls, and intense in guys...

And yeah, I think the secret of beauty is in the eyes. But it doesn't mean you must have blue eyes, or a lot of eyelashes, no... it's more about the way you look at things, like if your eyes were hiding something!..

So the next time you wanna feel prettier, go on and try to wear something that make your eyes look bigger, or try a new way to "see" things!..

Today's song --> Ojos así - Shakira

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

When your friends don't care

Hello readers!

I was just about not to post today... I'm not in the mood, but after all, I have this thing in my mind... What happens when your friends don't care? 

Sometimes, we're just so deep inside ourselves, that we forget to see who's next to us, It has happened to me, that a friend needs my help, and I don't notice, I just don't pray attention... But the real problem begins when they do it to you... 

If a friend doesn't care about your problem, you get sad, and angry and you feel alone, but what you don't realize, is that you did the same to them in the past... So try to be a better friend, if you want to have better friends... And if you still feel alone every time you need your friends, you probably need new ones!!

Todays song --> Love the way you lie - Eminem

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

Fighting with myself

Hello readers…

Today I was thinking, sitting in the bank, that people always wonder why are people always fighting… And I think I found and answer! Is in our nature!..

Have you ever asked yourself, why is that sometimes, we fight between out heart and our mind, or fight with ourselves to decide to do what’s good and boring, or bad and risky? If we fight even with ourselves, how in the world do you expect us not to fight with the people around us, that are also fighting constantly with their selves too!

For example, and it happens to me a lot: My mind says “don’t talk to him again, he doesn’t deserve it” but my heart or my other side of the brain says “Call him, forget what he told you” Then, no matter what I do, I’ll be mad at me. It’s so stupid but at least for me… Is something that I can’t avoid.

Today's song --> Love the way you lie - Eminem

So this is it... An small post, about a big thing! C ya tomorrow with a new happier post!

Memories into music!

Hello readers!

Today's post is about music. 

For me, music is a very important part of life, I can match almost every memory I have, with a song! So... as you might now, I right a diary! Just because my memory sucks, and to be able to remember almost anything, I have to watch it in a picture, or read it on a paper!! But I also, have another kind of diary   monthly... To remember things of the past, I use songs... Songs that I put into CDs.

The last couple of days, of every month, I make a CD with the music of that month. Maybe one or two songs from the month's top 10, an old song, any song I listened to that month... So I try to have at least 15 songs for each month, I burn a CD, and I write the year and the month on the CD top.

I started doing that like in February of 2008... So I have more or less 40 CDs. And it's amazing that when I put any of them in my car's CD player I totally travel back in time to that moment, it's almost like activating a movie in my mind! I just love to do that... It's a nice way to keep your memories! 

Today's song: I'm gonna put the list of songs I added to my July's 2011 CD

1) Break your heart - Taio Cruz

2) Mr. Saxobeat - Alexandra Stan

3) Sweat - Snoop Dog

4) Tonight Tonight - Hot chelle Rae

5) Te quiero - Stromae

6) Rolling in the deep - Maddi Jane (version)

7) Every tear drop is a water fall - Coldplay 

8) Barbara Streidsan - Duck Sause 

9) Alors on dance - Stromae

10) Hate on me - Glee Cast (Version)

11) Don't you want me - Glee Cast (Version)

12) Mrs. Robinson - Simons and Garfunkel 

13) 100 years - Five for fighting 

14) Nothing - The script

15) Xtatic Truch - Crystal fighters 

So this is it... Now, I invite you to do this, not only with CDs, it can be itunes playlists... I'm a little outdated sometimes, so I'll keep doing my CDs... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!

Playing hard to get!..

Hello readers!

Today's post is about, a thing that, a lot of people (guys and girls) do, to get someones attention... I'm talking about, playing hard to get!..

When you're first dating someone, it's ok to be hard to get... You don't wanna be an easy target, but, when you had being dating someone for a long time, playing hard to get, can be a risky game!.. For example, there's a lot of people that play to be interesting, not reading your texts, or ignoring you for some time, because they think, that way, you're in their hand... I do it a lot... But people actually get tired of that, and one good day, when you're waiting for them to text you, the text never appear... Why? Because they got tired of you not answering..!

So the next time you play hard to get with someone, don't be to hard... 'Cause people get tired and before you know, their gone, and without any motivations to come back..

Today's song --> Sweet child O' mine - Guns N Roses 

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post (still having problems with blogger)

You can't make them like you!

Hello readers!

Today's post is about that you can't force people to like you... It doesn't matter how nice you are, you're always gonna have some hatters!

The first time, I learn that in life, was on a cartoon... Recess (A disney production) in that episode, the main character, a supper nice guy, met this boy who didn't like him, and at the end, the boy still didn't like him!
So life's like that, sometimes, we make a huge effort to be "likable" to people, we don't want people to hate us, but it doesn't matter how hard you try, there's always gonna be a few.
The important part of this, is to make them, who like you, more important in your life, that the ones who dislike you!..

There's a very famous quote that reads: "If you have enemies, it's because you had defended something in your life"

Today's song --> Hate on me - Jill Scot

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!! (I had being having troubles with bloggers, so maybe I'll be delated with my posts)

Out of town!

Hello readers!
The reason why I didn't post yesterday, is that I was on the farm... My father has a farm hear in Venezuela, in the state of Guárico... It's a 30 hectares big!.. We love to go there, because you feel really out of town... Today's post will be mostly about the pics I took there!!!

View from the top... On our way to the farm

 

"El Recre" it's the farm's name!

Today's song --> Caballo viejo - Simón Díaz

So this is it!! C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

Ata's manual

Hello Readers!


Recently a friend of mine told me, that she was reading my blog, she like some post, and dislike others!.. But what she really find interesting, is that and I'm quoting her "It seems like a manual to understand you"


As I told you on my first post (if anybody read it) I'm a different person... I don't act as an usual girl, I have my own way to see life, and I'm not afraid of saying what's on my mind!.. For example, yesterday I was mad, and angry, today I was totally happy and positive... Is not like I'm bipolar, it's just that for me a problem shouldn't last more than a couple of ours, if it does, it completely freak me out!


If I really had to write a manual of how I am, I would say that I'm not complicated, but i'm not easy, I'm just different, and If you learn how to treat me, you'll love me!! (Ego growing here hahaha) I could say that, the world is used to windows, and I'm a mac!!


Here I left you some quotes that might describe me, and maybe they can describe you as well... After all, if you're reading my blog, you're not too different from me, and this manual could be also yours!

"Maybe I'm not awesome... Anyway I'm not even trying!"

"Life's too short to be with an asshole!"

"Never sacrifice who you are just because someone else has a problem with it."

"If I had learn something about life, I can resume it in 3 words: It goes on!"

"I'm not in love, I'm just happy with him! If that's love... So be it!"

"I'm not losing my time with you... I'm spending it!"

If you wanna stay inspired... Ignore the qst "what's the point?"

Today's song --> I need new songs so... There's not a today's song

So this is it... A little more about me! Tell me about you... What quotes speak for you? C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

I hate Thursdays!!

Ugly new hair style, I'm angry, glasses forever, moneyless 

Hello readers!

I'm in a supper bad mood, first 'cause I hate my new look, I dyed my hair, and I look like a freaking zebra! I had an argue with a friend, I figurate out I can't get the operation (because I have a stupid thing in my eye), and I'm money less (Because I pay like 100$ for my ugly new look)

Ok... Actually this is not the first thursday that this kind of things happen to me, It's just like the worst day of the week, everything goes wrong for me at thursdays. I'm so mad and upset right now that I want to cry. I don't wanna get out of this room ever!

I think that bad luck, come to us 'cause we believe in it... I start thinking thursday was my unlucky day, like a year ago... For no reason, every thursday I used to be on a bad mood, watching tv, no new comments on facebook, fighting with my friends... Don't know but I wish I could change it, I had try to change my perspective from this day, but it simply doesn't work...

Today's song --> S.O.S - Good Charlotte

So this is it... If you have any advice come on... Don't be afraid I'm mad but I wont eat you!! C ya tomorrow with a new post!

Forgive and Forget

Hello readers!
Actually for me, is not forgive and forget... Is forget and forgive. My memory seems to be unuseful when I try to remember why was I mad at someone, It can be annoying for some people, I'm gonna show you an example:
Once, I was talking to a guy I was dating, and he started talking about other girls, it was awful, so I told him to stop, and he screamed at me, and I screamed back... It was terrible, few ours latter, he invited me out, and I went, I totally forgot about the argue earlier...
Another example could be, that one time, I had a fight with a friend of mine, and she was really hurt and angry and I didn't want to talk to her anymore... Three days pass, and I call her like nothing ever happened, she was really angry... People get angry when you don't say I'm sorry, but the truth is, I don't say I'm sorry 'cause I always forget what should I be sorry for, or why were we fighting haha...

For me it seems kind of stupid, I'm not a spiteful person, not because I don't want to haha it's because I can't... For a while I was writing a diary, so that way I could learn about my mistakes or things... But after a little while, I forget about writing the diary... I'm a mess with that!! And people always take too seriously all the troubles they had, that if you forget about them, they get angry...

SORRY PEOPLE OUT THERE!!! I didn't say I was sorry, cause I forget we had a fight!!!

Today's song --> Forget you - Glee Cast

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post

My messy room

Hello readers!

Today I decided to clean my room... Well not to clean it with soap and water, I mean to put some order on it. 

Sometimes when my head is a mess, I have to clean my room just to put in order things, to think a little bit... For example, yesterday I was like really nervous with all the things coming up... The trip, moving out, the operation, leaving Venezuela... Things! 

I decide to clean it up, and that way I just got rid of all the unuseful things I was keeping, just because sometimes is hard to let the past pass! 

Many notebooks, diaries, close and other things that we accumulate throw the years! I'm gonna be honest, I just put away like 2 garbage bags, But I could have throw more things, a lot, like 5 or 6 bags! But it's the first time y clean my messy room this year... Let's take it easy, I don't wanna regret tomorrow that I throw away something that I wanted... 

So my advice to you is, when you feel afraid of letting the pass go, clean up your room, get raid of all those things you don't need anymore, the memories are in your head, you don't have to keep it in your room, and not because you keep them, they're coming back...

Today's song --> S.O.S - Good Charlotte

So this is it... C ya tomorrow with a new post!!!

New eyes?

Hello readers!
As you might now, i'm moving to Spain pretty soon (September) and I don't wanna go blind... And by blind I mean that I wear glasses!! I need them, I really can't see anything without them, if you know anything about photography you'll know what's an aperture f3.5 well if you don't, the picture behind this will show you how I usually see if I don't wear my glasses or my contacts.

So when I planed to move out, I wasn't thinking about my eyes at all, but now, I went to the doctor and I talked with my family, because I don't want to wear glasses anymore, I want to get operated from myopia (I have a -6) and that's a lot!!

But at the same time, it's kind of dangerous to make such a delicate intervention before traveling. I really don't know what I should do, I just know that for me, getting raid of the myopia would be the best of the best... I don't know what to do, but anyway do you know what's ironic?? This blog's name is The way I see it... And I don't see a shit thing hahaha

Today's song --> Blinded by the light - Manfred Mann's

So this is it... I still have the doubt haha... C ya tomorrow with a new less selfish post!!!